Nga Ardi Stefa <\/p>\n
P\u00ebrse shqiptar\u00ebt historikisht d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebrtet, k\u00ebrc\u00ebnon dhe posht\u00ebron, sesa at\u00eb q\u00eb shpjegon, bind dhe respekton?<\/p>\n
Pse, n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb nj\u00eb lider t\u00eb fort\u00eb n\u00eb karakter, k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb nj\u00eb lider t\u00eb fort\u00eb n\u00eb dor\u00eb?<\/p>\n
Ndoshta, sepse p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb formimit ton\u00eb kulturor e politik kemi ngat\u00ebrruar p\u00ebr shum\u00eb koh\u00eb forc\u00ebn me autoritetin.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri shteti ka qen\u00eb gjithmon\u00eb autoritar, i larg\u00ebt, i padrejt\u00eb ose i paaft\u00eb, duke injektuar mentalitetin q\u00eb me t\u00eb but\u00eb nuk merresh vesh. Duhet t\u00eb b\u00ebrtas\u00ebsh, t\u00eb kesh mik dhe, sidomos t\u00eb kesh pushtet. Ta tremb\u00ebsh tjetrin para se ai t\u00eb t\u00eb tremb\u00eb ty.<\/p>\n
K\u00ebshtu lind miti i \u201ct\u00eb fortit\u201d q\u00eb nuk k\u00ebrkon t\u00eb respekt, por frik\u00eb. Nuk ka synim t\u00eb bind\u00eb, por t\u00eb urdh\u00ebroj\u00eb. Q\u00eb sulmon n\u00eb vend t\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjes dhe quan armik at\u00eb q\u00eb e kritikon, sepse nuk e p\u00ebrtyp dot kritik\u00ebn.<\/p>\n
Nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb, me kalimin e koh\u00ebs, ata q\u00eb e duartrokasin m\u00eb von\u00eb do t\u00eb posht\u00ebrohen prej tij.<\/p>\n
Por pse e pranojn\u00eb shqiptar\u00ebt? Pa dashur t\u00eb b\u00ebj shum\u00eb zhbirime n\u00eb psikosintez\u00ebn ton\u00eb kujtoj nj\u00eb shprehje, e cila thuhej n\u00eb Vlor\u00eb dhe q\u00eb mendoj se e p\u00ebrmbledh m\u00eb s\u00eb miri n\u00ebnshtrimin ton\u00eb p\u00ebrball\u00eb arroganc\u00ebs: \u201cJemi rrahur q\u00eb kulish\u00eb!\u201d<\/p>\n
Sepse arroganca krijon nj\u00eb iluzion sigurie. P\u00ebrball\u00eb kaosit, njeriu i pasigurt k\u00ebrkon dik\u00eb q\u00eb flet me siguri absolute. Nuk ka r\u00ebnd\u00ebsi n\u00ebse thot\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00ebn. Mjafton t\u00eb mos duket i pasigurt.<\/p>\n
Demokracia, p\u00ebrkundrazi, \u00ebsht\u00eb e bezdisshme. Ajo k\u00ebrkon debat, durim, kompromis, institucione, kontroll dhe p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsi. Lideri demokratik duhet t\u00eb shpjegoj\u00eb pse. Lideri autoritar mjafton t\u00eb thot\u00eb q\u00eb ashtu do ai.<\/p>\n
Dhe shqiptari, i m\u00ebsuar me k\u00ebt\u00eb trajtim e adhuron k\u00ebt\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Dhe n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb dik\u00eb q\u00eb e respekton, mban at\u00eb q\u00eb i duket se mund ta mbroj\u00eb, pa\u00e7ka se nes\u00ebr do t\u2019i marr\u00eb edhe dinjitetin.<\/p>\n
Pastaj ankohet.<\/p>\n
Ankohet p\u00ebr arroganc\u00ebn e pushtetit, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb ka votuar arroganc\u00ebn. Ankohet p\u00ebr korrupsionin, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb admiron \u201ct\u00eb fortin\u201d q\u00eb i ka shkelur rregullat. Ankohet p\u00ebr munges\u00ebn e drejt\u00ebsis\u00eb, nd\u00ebrkoh\u00eb q\u00eb ka bindjen se drejt\u00ebsia \u00ebsht\u00eb ajo q\u00eb vendos m\u00eb i fuqishmi.<\/p>\n
Arroganca nuk bie nga qielli.<\/p>\n
Ne e ngjisim atje. Dhe pastaj habitemi pse na sheh nga lart.<\/p>\n
Nuk mund t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtohet qytetari demokratike me psikologjin\u00eb e oborrit t\u00eb mbretit.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb nj\u00eb demokraci normale, qytetari nuk duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrkulet p\u00ebrpara pushtetit. Pushteti duhet t\u00eb p\u00ebrkulet p\u00ebrpara ligjit. Arroganca duhet t\u2019i n\u00ebnshtrohet toleranc\u00ebs dhe rregullave demokratike.<\/p>\n
Por kjo k\u00ebrkon q\u00eb shqiptar\u00ebt t\u00eb ndryshojn\u00eb m\u00ebnyr\u00ebn se si e perceptojn\u00eb forc\u00ebn.<\/p>\n
Forc\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb posht\u00ebrosh, por t\u00eb mos kesh nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb posht\u00ebrosh ask\u00ebnd.<\/p>\n
Forc\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb persekutosh e t\u2019i mbyll\u00ebsh goj\u00ebn kund\u00ebrshtarit, por t\u00eb pranosh kritik\u00ebn.<\/p>\n
Forc\u00eb nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb ken\u00eb frik\u00eb, por t\u00eb mos k\u00ebrkosh q\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt t\u00eb ken\u00eb frik\u00eb prej teje.<\/p>\n
Ndaj dita kur shqiptari do t\u00eb pushoj\u00eb s\u00eb admiruari dor\u00ebn e fort\u00eb dhe do t\u00eb filloj\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkoj\u00eb institucionin e fort\u00eb, do t\u00eb jet\u00eb dita kur do t\u00eb ndryshoj\u00eb gjith\u00e7ka p\u00ebr shqiptar\u00ebt.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Nga Ardi Stefa P\u00ebrse shqiptar\u00ebt historikisht d\u00ebgjojn\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb at\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebrtet, k\u00ebrc\u00ebnon dhe posht\u00ebron, sesa at\u00eb q\u00eb shpjegon, bind dhe respekton? Pse, n\u00eb vend q\u00eb t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb nj\u00eb lider t\u00eb fort\u00eb n\u00eb karakter, k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb nj\u00eb lider t\u00eb fort\u00eb n\u00eb dor\u00eb? Ndoshta, sepse p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb formimit ton\u00eb kulturor e politik kemi ngat\u00ebrruar p\u00ebr shum\u00eb […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":0,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-97425","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zennihost.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/97425","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zennihost.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zennihost.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zennihost.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=97425"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/zennihost.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/97425\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zennihost.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=97425"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zennihost.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=97425"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zennihost.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=97425"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}