Alba Malltezi
\nKur shohim q\u00eb nj\u00eb i ri shqiptar vret vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr nj\u00eb sherr nj\u00eb t\u00eb ri portugez n\u00eb vendin m\u00eb ikonik t\u00eb pushimeve n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri, pyesim se \u00e7far\u00eb ka n\u00eb thell\u00ebsin\u00eb e shpirtit t\u00eb djalit hasian? \u00c7\u2019rrebesh ka z\u00ebn\u00eb vend n\u00eb at\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb qet\u00eb e t\u00eb padep\u00ebrtueshme t\u00eb tij q\u00eb duhet ta frenonte p\u00ebr t\u00eb mos shkelur vij\u00ebn e kuqe t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb nj\u00eb tjetri t\u00eb ri? Pse e kap\u00ebrceu kaq leht\u00eb, p\u00ebr kaq pak gj\u00eb, n\u00eb nj\u00eb vend shlodh\u00ebs e mikprit\u00ebs?<\/p>\n
Pse disa prej nesh jan\u00eb kaq t\u00eb acaruar? Kaq konfliktual\u00eb? \u00c7far\u00eb dhe kush ka ndikuar? Mbetemi nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri e ndjeshme dhe n\u00eb gjith\u00eb tranzicionin e gjat\u00eb ka shum\u00eb arsye p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb gjendje, por q\u00eb, nuk mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb zgjidhje reagimi ekstrem p\u00ebr hi\u00e7gj\u00eb. Duket sikur frenat q\u00eb e mbajn\u00eb njeriun njer\u00ebzor, jan\u00eb l\u00ebnduar.<\/p>\n
Nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e politik\u00ebs son\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb fakt q\u00eb shtyn sistematikisht shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb n\u00eb caqe ekstreme, prej dekadash tashm\u00eb, me q\u00ebllim p\u00ebr t\u00eb trazuar at\u00eb pjes\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb qet\u00eb, t\u00eb pal\u00ebvizshme e t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme t\u00eb njer\u00ebzve. Duhet vepruar p\u00ebr ta frenuar. Nj\u00eb pjes\u00eb e politik\u00ebs \u00e7on n\u00eb ekstrem edhe p\u00ebr hi\u00e7gj\u00eb, edhe p\u00ebr gj\u00ebra q\u00eb nuk ekzistojn\u00eb, edhe p\u00ebr gj\u00ebra t\u00eb sajuara. N\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri u m\u00ebsuam t\u00eb urrejm\u00eb pra p\u00ebr realitete t\u00eb gatuara, t\u00eb shpikura, t\u00eb studiuara p\u00ebr t\u00eb urryer dik\u00eb n\u00eb ekstrem. U m\u00ebsuam t\u00eb urrejm\u00eb fare kollaj!<\/p>\n
N\u00eb nj\u00eb sondazh t\u00eb thjesht\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb mesgusht te Shqiptarja.com, pyetjes s\u00eb kush ndikon n\u00eb konfliktet n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri, politika, shoq\u00ebria apo social mediat, rreth 3 mij\u00eb votues q\u00eb klikuan, mbi 50 p\u00ebrqind shprehen se \u00ebsht\u00eb \u201cPolitika\u201d.<\/p>\n
Nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb gj\u00eb e mir\u00eb. N\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb perceptohet qart\u00eb se disave prej nesh iu \u00ebsht\u00eb trazuar deti i thell\u00eb i qet\u00ebsis\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrore. Ajo pjes\u00eb e jona q\u00eb p\u00ebrgjith\u00ebsisht duhet t\u00eb q\u00ebndroj\u00eb e pal\u00ebvizur, e patronditur; ajo zon\u00eb q\u00eb nuk duket, por q\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb e dim\u00eb se ekziston e q\u00eb na mban, th\u00ebn\u00eb shqip, \u201cme k\u00ebmb\u00eb n\u00eb tok\u00eb\u201d n\u00eb shum\u00eb situata t\u00eb nd\u00ebrlikuara, sot duket e brisht\u00eb. Tani edhe m\u00eb e tronditur se fillimi i viteve \u201990, kur t\u00eb gjith\u00eb bashk\u00eb dol\u00ebm nga kafazi m\u00eb i eg\u00ebr komunist.<\/p>\n
\u201cShp\u00ebrthimet\u201d, \u201cplasjet\u201d, \u201cp\u00ebrplasjet\u201d, \u201cmallkimet\u201d, \u201csharjet\u201d, pra\u2026 urrejtja p\u00ebr nj\u00ebri-tjetrin pa frena, deri n\u00eb shkat\u00ebrrim, jan\u00eb kaq t\u00eb kollajshme t\u00eb hidhen kudo p\u00ebr \u201ckonsum\u201d n\u00eb publik. E gjen n\u00eb deklarata politikan\u00ebsh, n\u00eb biseda televizionesh, n\u00eb postime socialmediash\u2026 U pa dhe n\u00eb protest\u00ebn e \u201cFlamingove\u201d, ku krahas kauzave q\u00eb mor\u00ebn duartrokitjet e shum\u00eb shqiptar\u00ebve, u d\u00ebgjuan fjal\u00eb t\u00eb ndikuara nga instikte t\u00eb trazuara pik\u00ebrisht n\u00eb at\u00eb detin e thell\u00eb personal t\u00eb shpirtrave. U d\u00ebgjuan thirrje me vdekje, hakmarrje p\u00ebr p\u00ebr nj\u00eb tren q\u00eb nuk ekziston, p\u00ebr pushime e p\u00ebr fundjava; u d\u00ebgjuan fjal\u00eb t\u00eb tmerrshme dhune nga goj\u00eb t\u00eb pafajshme f\u00ebmij\u00ebsh!<\/p>\n
A ka nj\u00eb zgjidhje p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb? A ka struktura n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri q\u00eb mund t\u00eb ndikojn\u00eb n\u00eb rikthimin e qet\u00ebsis\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrore, pik\u00ebrisht aty, n\u00eb thell\u00ebsin\u00eb ku \u00e7do det a oqean \u00ebsht\u00eb i pal\u00ebvizsh\u00ebm, i paprekur, i paqt\u00eb dhe n\u00eb harmoni?<\/p>\n
Kur m\u00ebsues dhe prind\u00ebr jan\u00eb t\u00eb trazuar gjithashtu, at\u00ebher\u00eb, gjysh\u00ebr, besime fetare, psikolog\u00eb; miq, t\u00eb af\u00ebrm, duhet ta marrin situat\u00ebn n\u00eb dor\u00eb e t\u00eb jen\u00eb nj\u00eb shpatull e dashur ku m\u00eb t\u00eb brisht\u00ebt e m\u00eb t\u00eb prekurit mund t\u00eb mb\u00ebshteten. N\u00eb \u00e7do shoq\u00ebri, dallg\u00ebt e ndryshimeve mund t\u00eb arrijn\u00eb dhjet\u00ebra metra lart\u00ebsi, mund t\u00eb shkat\u00ebrrojn\u00eb e t\u00eb ndryshojn\u00eb relieve, por kurr\u00ebsesi esenc\u00ebn e past\u00ebr t\u00eb identitetit dhe t\u00eb ekuilibrit t\u00eb thell\u00eb t\u00eb njer\u00ebzve. K\u00ebt\u00eb thell\u00ebsi duhet ta ruajm\u00eb t\u00eb paqt\u00eb dhe t\u00eb paprekur.<\/p>\n
Fortlumturi Joani, Kryepeshkop i Kish\u00ebs Orthodhokse Autoqefale t\u00eb Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb nga ato autoritete q\u00eb ka treguar se e ka n\u00eb v\u00ebmendje gj\u00ebndjen shpirt\u00ebrore t\u00eb bashk\u00ebatdhetar\u00ebve dhe fjal\u00ebt e tij shpesh mbajn\u00eb v\u00ebmendje dhe k\u00ebshilla se si mund t\u00eb kthejm\u00eb v\u00ebmendjen p\u00ebr t\u2019u b\u00ebr\u00eb m\u00eb njer\u00ebzor\u00eb n\u00eb k\u00ebto dit\u00eb kur t\u00eb tjer\u00eb shtyjn\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb kap\u00ebrcyer kufij.<\/p>\n
\u201cKur njeriu \u2013 nuk b\u00ebn jet\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrore \u2013 shpirti i tij thahet, mendja i err\u00ebsohet dhe zemra i ngurt\u00ebsohet.<\/p>\n
Dhe fillon pastaj \u2013 dhe shan t\u00eb gjith\u00eb njer\u00ebzit, sepse i duket vetja \u2013 \u201cm\u00eb i mir\u00eb\u201d.<\/p>\n
Dhe p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, mendon se duhet ta mburrin dhe ta lavd\u00ebrojn\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb.<\/p>\n
K\u00ebrkon dhe do \u2013 \u00e7do gj\u00eb p\u00ebr veten \u2013 sepse mendon , se i p\u00ebrkasin t\u00eb gjitha.<\/p>\n
Edhe k\u00ebshtu e kuptojm\u00eb pra, se p\u00ebrse k\u00ebt\u00eb koh\u00eb \u2013 njer\u00ebzit jan\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb k\u00ebshtu \u2013 kaq t\u00eb ftoht\u00eb, kaq t\u00eb pandjesh\u00ebm \u2013 q\u00eb u mungon dashuria.<\/p>\n
Pik\u00ebrisht tani, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb koh\u00eb \u2013 Krishti na fton t\u00eb nisim nj\u00eb jet\u00eb shpirt\u00ebrore, t\u00eb fillojm\u00eb t\u00eb kreshmojm\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Sepse duke kreshmuar, do e shikojm\u00eb veten ton\u00eb, se ku jemi realisht, se ku jemi katandisur.<\/p>\n
Dhe duke kreshmuar, do fillojm\u00eb t\u00eb shikojm\u00eb se n\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb nuk kemi asgj\u00eb, p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb krenar.<\/p>\n
Se krenaria q\u00eb kemi \u2013 realisht \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb \u201ckrenari boshe\u201d, e cila na ka deformuar si njer\u00ebz dhe na b\u00ebn t\u00eb jemi nj\u00eb krijes\u00eb jo reale, nj\u00eb krijes\u00eb fallco.<\/p>\n
Zoti na fton ta hedhim tutje, k\u00ebt\u00eb krenari boshe, k\u00ebt\u00eb fallsitet.<\/p>\n
Na fton t\u00eb b\u00ebhemi t\u00eb p\u00ebrulur ashtu si shenjtor\u00ebt, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt kur pan\u00eb brenda shpirtit t\u00eb tyre se nuk kishte asgj\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb krenar\u00eb, u p\u00ebrul\u00ebn aq shum\u00eb, sa edhe u b\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb ngjash\u00ebm me Zotin.<\/p>\n
K\u00ebshtu edhe ne \u2013 le t\u00eb b\u00ebhemi t\u00eb p\u00ebrulur n\u00eb jet\u00ebn ton\u00eb \u2013 ashtu si shenjtor\u00ebt \u2013 q\u00eb t\u00eb arrijm\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebhemi t\u00eb ngjash\u00ebm me Zotin.<\/p>\n
Besimi \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb rrug\u00eb q\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb e kan\u00eb p\u00ebrshkuar dhe kan\u00eb p\u00ebrfituar, por sigurisht ka dhe rrug\u00eb t\u00eb tjera p\u00ebr k\u00ebdo, p\u00ebr besimtar\u00eb e atesist\u00eb, si kultura, shkenca, kontakti me natyr\u00ebn m\u00ebm\u00eb, jan\u00eb ura q\u00eb mund t\u00eb na ndihmojn\u00eb t\u00eb dallojm\u00eb, t\u00eb verifikojm\u00eb, e sidomos\u2026 t\u00eb duam, duke e p\u00ebrbuzur urrejtjen e sajuar.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
Alba Malltezi Kur shohim q\u00eb nj\u00eb i ri shqiptar vret vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr nj\u00eb sherr nj\u00eb t\u00eb ri portugez n\u00eb vendin m\u00eb ikonik t\u00eb pushimeve n\u00eb Shqip\u00ebri, pyesim se \u00e7far\u00eb ka n\u00eb thell\u00ebsin\u00eb e shpirtit t\u00eb djalit hasian? \u00c7\u2019rrebesh ka z\u00ebn\u00eb vend n\u00eb at\u00eb pjes\u00eb t\u00eb qet\u00eb e t\u00eb padep\u00ebrtueshme t\u00eb tij q\u00eb duhet ta frenonte […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":0,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-97192","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zennihost.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/97192","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zennihost.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zennihost.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zennihost.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=97192"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/zennihost.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/97192\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zennihost.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=97192"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zennihost.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=97192"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zennihost.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=97192"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}