Dashi \u00ebsht\u00eb shenja e par\u00eb e zodiakut. Jo rast\u00ebsisht. Ai p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson fillimin, vrullin, shtytjen q\u00eb thyen akullin kur t\u00eb gjith\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt ende pyesin veten n\u00ebse \u00ebsht\u00eb gj\u00ebja e duhur p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb. \u00cbsht\u00eb energji e past\u00ebr: nj\u00eb shenj\u00eb Zjarri, e sunduar nga Marsi, planeti i veprimit dhe instinktit.<\/p>\n
T\u00eb lindurit n\u00ebn k\u00ebt\u00eb shenj\u00eb e p\u00ebrjetojn\u00eb jet\u00ebn sikur t\u00eb ishin duke filluar nga blloqet e fillimit: zemra e tyre rreh fort, mendja e tyre tashm\u00eb dy hapa p\u00ebrpara dhe asnj\u00eb d\u00ebshir\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb pritur q\u00eb dikush t\u2019u jap\u00eb drit\u00ebn jeshile.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb jet\u00ebn e p\u00ebrditshme, kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb e dukshme n\u00eb m\u00ebnyra shum\u00eb konkrete:
\nHyjn\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00ebt n\u00eb situata t\u00eb reja<\/p>\n
Nuk mund ta durojn\u00eb koh\u00ebn e lir\u00eb<\/p>\n
Shprehin mendimin e tyre, edhe kur do t\u00eb ishte m\u00eb mir\u00eb ta filtronin<\/p>\n
Guximi i Dashit \u00ebsht\u00eb pothuajse fizik, pothuajse i preksh\u00ebm: ata hidhen t\u00eb par\u00ebt dhe i mendojn\u00eb gj\u00ebrat m\u00eb von\u00eb. Ata jan\u00eb lloji i personit q\u00eb:<\/p>\n
Mbron nj\u00eb mik pa menduar dy her\u00eb<\/p>\n
Ata nisin nj\u00eb pun\u00eb ose projekt t\u00eb ri nga e para<\/p>\n
P\u00ebrpiqen, d\u00ebshtojn\u00eb, p\u00ebrpiqen p\u00ebrs\u00ebri, pa frik\u00eb se \u201cdo t\u00eb b\u00ebhen budallenj\u201d<\/p>\n
Te Dashi, guximi dhe zem\u00ebrimi jan\u00eb si dy dhoma t\u00eb ndara nga nj\u00eb der\u00eb gjysm\u00eb e hapur. Nuk u duhet shum\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb kaluar nga nj\u00ebra n\u00eb tjetr\u00ebn. Dhe ja pika interesante: shpesh nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb zem\u00ebrim \u201ci v\u00ebrtet\u00eb\u201d, por tension i akumuluar, \u00ebsht\u00eb frustrim sepse gj\u00ebrat nuk po l\u00ebvizin aq shpejt sa do t\u00eb donin.<\/p>\n
P\u00ebr t\u00eb kuptuar m\u00eb mir\u00eb, shikoni disa dinamika tipike:<\/p>\n
Kur di\u00e7ka duket e padrejt\u00eb, Dashi reagon menj\u00ebher\u00eb: mbrohet, b\u00ebrtet, ekspozohet.<\/p>\n
Kur ndihen t\u00eb bllokuar, shp\u00ebrthejn\u00eb: nuk mund t\u2019i p\u00ebrballojn\u00eb frenat, urdhrat, pritjet e pafundme.<\/p>\n
Kur jan\u00eb t\u00eb dashuruar, jan\u00eb pasionant\u00eb\u2026 por edhe xheloz\u00eb dhe hiper-reaktiv\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Guximi i Dashit \u00ebsht\u00eb i jasht\u00ebzakonsh\u00ebm sepse:<\/p>\n
P\u00ebrballen me debate q\u00eb t\u00eb gjith\u00eb i shmangin.<\/p>\n
Nuk kan\u00eb frik\u00eb nga ata q\u00eb jan\u00eb \u201cm\u00eb t\u00eb m\u00ebdhenj\u201d ose \u201cm\u00eb t\u00eb fuqish\u00ebm\u201d.<\/p>\n
Marrin rreziqe, edhe kur shanset duken t\u00eb ul\u00ebta.<\/p>\n
Zem\u00ebrimi, nga ana tjet\u00ebr, lind kur:
\nNuk ndihen t\u00eb d\u00ebgjuar ose t\u00eb marr\u00eb seriozisht.<\/p>\n
Ata ndiejn\u00eb nj\u00eb tradhti, qoft\u00eb edhe nj\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl.<\/p>\n
Dikush p\u00ebrpiqet t\u2019i manipuloj\u00eb ose t\u2019i b\u00ebj\u00eb t\u00eb kalojn\u00eb \u201cgardhin\u201d.<\/p>\n
Si ta duash, kuptosh (dhe mbijetosh) nj\u00eb Dash
\nT\u00eb jetosh me nj\u00eb Dash nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb kurr\u00eb e m\u00ebrzitshme. Asnj\u00ebher\u00eb.Ata q\u00eb i duan, kalojn\u00eb koh\u00eb ose punojn\u00eb me ta, her\u00ebt a von\u00eb pyesin veten: si e menaxhon k\u00ebt\u00eb p\u00ebrzierje guximi shp\u00ebrthyes dhe zem\u00ebrimi t\u00eb papritur?<\/p>\n
Disa k\u00ebshilla praktike dhe shum\u00eb konkrete:
\nFlisni qart\u00eb: rrug\u00ebt rrethore dhe thumbimet e \u00e7mendin.<\/p>\n
Shmangni loj\u00ebrat e pushtetit: ai reagon keq n\u00ebse ndihet i kontrolluar.<\/p>\n
Pranoni meritat e tij: jo p\u00ebr t\u00eb d\u00ebshtuar, por sepse duhet t\u00eb ndihet i dobish\u00ebm.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb dashuri, Dashi d\u00ebshiron:
\nPasion, kontakt, gj\u00ebra t\u00eb p\u00ebrjetuara seriozisht.<\/p>\n
Spontanitet: pa teatralitet, pa dram\u00eb t\u00eb llogaritur.<\/p>\n
Dik\u00eb q\u00eb mban ritmin, por q\u00eb di gjithashtu t\u00eb thot\u00eb \u201cNdalo, prit nj\u00eb minut\u00eb\u201d.<\/p>\n
P\u00ebr t\u00eb shmangur nxitjen e zem\u00ebrimit t\u00eb Dashit, mund t\u00eb ndihmoj\u00eb:
\nT\u2019i jap\u00ebsh nj\u00eb rrug\u00ebdalje: sport, kreativitet, projekte sfiduese.<\/p>\n
Mos u p\u00ebrgjigj me t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin agresion kur ndizet: m\u00eb mir\u00eb ta ndalosh loj\u00ebn, pastaj t\u00eb flas\u00ebsh me qet\u00ebsi.<\/p>\n
Mbani mend se shuhet shpejt: Dashi nxehet shpejt\u2026 por shpesh kalon shpejt n\u00ebse nuk vazhdoni ta nxisni zjarrin.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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