{"id":60301,"date":"2025-12-25T20:44:30","date_gmt":"2025-12-25T20:44:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/zennihost.com\/test\/2025\/12\/25\/historia-e-pabesueshme-futen-ne-shtepi-nje-te-pastrehe-ai-qendroi-me-ta-per-45-vjet\/"},"modified":"2025-12-25T20:44:30","modified_gmt":"2025-12-25T20:44:30","slug":"historia-e-pabesueshme-futen-ne-shtepi-nje-te-pastrehe-ai-qendroi-me-ta-per-45-vjet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/zennihost.com\/test\/2025\/12\/25\/historia-e-pabesueshme-futen-ne-shtepi-nje-te-pastrehe-ai-qendroi-me-ta-per-45-vjet\/","title":{"rendered":"Historia e pabesueshme\/ Fut\u00ebn n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi nj\u00eb t\u00eb pastreh\u00eb, ai q\u00ebndroi me ta p\u00ebr 45 vjet"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span>M\u00eb 23 dhjetor 1975, Rob Parsons dhe gruaja e tij Diane i hap\u00ebn der\u00ebn nj\u00eb burri 30-vje\u00e7ar t\u00eb pastreh\u00eb, nj\u00eb akt mir\u00ebsie q\u00eb do t\u2019ua ndryshonte jet\u00ebn p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb. E gjitha filloi kur at\u00eb Krishtlindje, \u00e7ifti i ri n\u00eb Cardiff d\u00ebgjoi nj\u00eb trokitje n\u00eb der\u00ebn e tyre. Historin\u00eb e ka publikuar <a href=\"https:\/\/www.bbc.com\/news\/articles\/cdxwllqz1l0o\">BBC<\/a>. Ishte nj\u00eb burr\u00eb i pastreh\u00eb q\u00eb q\u00ebndronte te dera e tyre me sendet e tij n\u00eb nj\u00eb qese plehrash n\u00eb dor\u00ebn e djatht\u00eb dhe nj\u00eb pul\u00eb t\u00eb ngrir\u00eb n\u00eb t\u00eb majt\u00ebn. Ishte Ronnie Lockwood.<\/span><br \/>\n<span>Rob e pa me v\u00ebmendje fytyr\u00ebn e tij dhe Ronnie Lockwood iu duk nj\u00eb fytyr\u00eb e njohur pasi e kishte par\u00eb her\u00eb pas here n\u00eb shkoll\u00ebn e s\u00eb diel\u00ebs kur ishte f\u00ebmij\u00eb dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb cilin i kishin th\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb sillej mir\u00eb sepse ishte \u201cpak ndryshe\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>\u201cUn\u00eb i thash\u00eb, \u201cRonnie po kjo pul\u00eb?\u201d dhe ai m\u00eb tha, \u201cDikush ma dha p\u00ebr Krishtlindje\u201d. Pastaj i thash\u00eb dy fjal\u00eb q\u00eb ndryshuan jet\u00ebn e t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve. Nuk jam i sigurt pse i thash\u00eb. I thash\u00eb, \u201cHyr brenda\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>\u00c7ifti vet\u00ebm 27 dhe 26 vje\u00e7 n\u00eb at\u00eb koh\u00eb, ndjeu nevoj\u00ebn p\u00ebr ta marr\u00eb n\u00ebn kujdesin e tyre Ronin, i cili ishte autik. Ata ia gatuan pul\u00ebn, e lan\u00eb dhe ran\u00eb dakord ta mbanin p\u00ebr Krishtlindje. Ajo q\u00eb filloi si nj\u00eb akt dhembshurie u shnd\u00ebrrua n\u00eb nj\u00eb histori dashurie unike q\u00eb zgjati 45 vjet, deri n\u00eb dit\u00ebn kur vdiq Ronnie.<\/span><\/p>\n\n<p><span>Rob, tani 77 vje\u00e7, dhe Diana, 76 vje\u00e7, ishin martuar vet\u00ebm prej 4 vitesh kur e mir\u00ebprit\u00ebn Ronnie n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e tyre. \u201cAi ishte ulur n\u00eb tryez\u00ebn e Krishtlindjeve dhe kishte k\u00ebto dhurata dhe po qante.\u201d Ronnie ishte at\u00ebher\u00eb pothuajse 30 vje\u00e7 dhe kishte qen\u00eb i pastreh\u00eb q\u00eb nga mosha 15 vje\u00e7, duke jetuar n\u00eb Cardiff dhe zonat p\u00ebrreth dhe duke nd\u00ebrruar vazhdimisht pun\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>P\u00ebr ta b\u00ebr\u00eb t\u00eb ndihej sa m\u00eb i mir\u00ebpritur, ata i k\u00ebrkuan familjes s\u00eb tyre t\u2019i sillnin nj\u00eb dhurat\u00eb Krishtlindjesh, nga nj\u00eb pal\u00eb \u00e7orape dhe disa \u201caroma\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>\u201cEnde e mbaj mend. Ai ulej n\u00eb tryez\u00ebn e Krishtlindjeve dhe merrte k\u00ebto dhurata dhe qante sepse nuk ishte ndjer\u00eb kurr\u00eb kaq i dashur, e dini. Ishte thjesht e pabesueshme ta shihje\u201d, \u2013 thot\u00eb Diane.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>\u00c7ifti kishte planifikuar ta linte t\u00eb q\u00ebndronte deri dit\u00ebn pas Krishtlindjeve, por kur erdhi dita, ata nuk mund\u00ebn ta nxirrnin Ronnie jasht\u00eb dhe k\u00ebrkuan k\u00ebshilla nga autoritetet.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Qendra e t\u00eb pastreh\u00ebve u tha atyre se Ronnie i duhej nj\u00eb adres\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb gjetur nj\u00eb pun\u00eb, por \u201cp\u00ebr t\u00eb gjetur nj\u00eb sht\u00ebpi i duhej nj\u00eb pun\u00eb. Kjo \u00ebsht\u00eb rruga pa krye n\u00eb t\u00eb cil\u00ebn ndodhen <\/span><span>shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz t\u00eb pastreh\u00eb\u201d, \u2013 tha Rob.<\/span><\/p>\n\n<p><span>Historia e Ronnie fillon kur ai ishte f\u00ebmij\u00eb, vet\u00ebm 8 vje\u00e7, kur u vendos n\u00eb nj\u00eb azil kujdesi. Tre vjet m\u00eb von\u00eb, ai u zhduk nga Cardiff. Ai u d\u00ebrgua rreth 200 milje larg n\u00eb nj\u00eb shkoll\u00eb speciale ku jetoi p\u00ebr 5 vjet. \u201cAi nuk kishte miq atje. Nuk kishte punonj\u00ebs social q\u00eb e njihte. Nuk kishte m\u00ebsues q\u00eb e njihnin\u201d, \u2013 thot\u00eb Rob.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Ronnie shpesh pyeste: \u201cA b\u00ebra di\u00e7ka gabim?\u201d, di\u00e7ka q\u00eb ata besojn\u00eb se e m\u00ebsoi nga shkolla. \u201cAi ishte gjithmon\u00eb i shqet\u00ebsuar se mos t\u00eb kishte ofenduar ose se kishte b\u00ebr\u00eb di\u00e7ka t\u00eb gabuar\u201d, thot\u00eb Rob. N\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 15 vje\u00e7, Ronnie u d\u00ebrgua p\u00ebrs\u00ebri n\u00eb Cardiff \u201cpa asgj\u00eb\u201d dhe mbeti i pastreh\u00eb p\u00ebr nj\u00eb koh\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>\u00c7ifti zbuloi se Ronnie fillimisht ishte pak n\u00eb siklet pasi luftonte p\u00ebr t\u00eb b\u00ebr\u00eb kontakt me sy dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb zhvilluar nj\u00eb bised\u00eb normale. \u201cPor pastaj e njoh\u00ebm dhe e desh\u00ebm\u201d, \u2013 thon\u00eb ata.<\/span><br \/>\n<span>Ata e ndihmuan Ronnie t\u00eb gjente nj\u00eb pun\u00eb si mbledh\u00ebs mbeturinash dhe i blen\u00eb rroba t\u00eb reja, pasi ai vishte t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat rroba q\u00eb kishte veshur si adoleshent n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb. \u201cNe nuk kishim f\u00ebmij\u00eb tan\u00ebt. Ishte sikur po i vishnim f\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb p\u00ebr n\u00eb shkoll\u00eb, ishim prind\u00ebr krenar\u00eb\u201d, \u2013 tha Rob.<\/span><\/p>\n\n<p><span>\u201cKur dol\u00ebm nga dyqani, Diane m\u00eb tha: \u201cAi gjeti nj\u00eb pun\u00eb si pastrues mbeturinash dhe ne e vesh\u00ebm sikur t\u00eb ishte p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebsues hoteli\u201d, \u2013 tha Rob me t\u00eb qeshur.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Robi ishte avokat dhe zgjohej nj\u00eb or\u00eb m\u00eb her\u00ebt p\u00ebr ta \u00e7uar Ronnie n\u00eb pun\u00ebn e tij p\u00ebrpara se ai t\u00eb shkonte n\u00eb t\u00eb vet\u00ebn. Kur kthehej n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi, Rob tha se Ronnie shpesh ulej aty, duke buz\u00ebqeshur, dhe nj\u00eb nat\u00eb e pyeti: \u201cRonnie, \u00e7far\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebn kaq p\u00ebr t\u00eb qeshur?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Ronnie u p\u00ebrgjigj: \u201cRob, kur m\u00eb \u00e7on n\u00eb pun\u00eb n\u00eb m\u00ebngjes, burrat e tjer\u00eb thon\u00eb: \u201cKush \u00ebsht\u00eb ai q\u00eb t\u00eb \u00e7on n\u00eb pun\u00eb me at\u00eb makin\u00eb?\u201d Dhe un\u00eb them: \u201cOh, ky \u00ebsht\u00eb avokati im\u201d, \u2013 u p\u00ebrgjigj Ronnie. \u201cNuk mendojm\u00eb se ai ishte krenar q\u00eb e kishte \u00e7uar n\u00eb pun\u00eb nj\u00eb avokat, por mendojm\u00eb se ndoshta nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb \u00e7uar kurr\u00eb n\u00eb pun\u00eb q\u00eb nga dita e tij t\u00eb par\u00eb t\u00eb shkoll\u00ebs. <\/span><span>\u201cDhe tani q\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb pothuajse 30 vje\u00e7\u2026 m\u00eb n\u00eb fund dikush ishte te porta\u201d, shpjegoi Rob. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>\u201c<\/span><span>Ronnie e zbrazte lavastoviljen \u00e7do m\u00ebngjes dhe Rob b\u00ebnte sikur ishte i befasuar q\u00eb t\u00eb mos e zhg\u00ebnjente Ronnie. \u201c\u00cbsht\u00eb e v\u00ebshtir\u00eb t\u00eb dukesh i befasuar kur t\u00eb b\u00ebhet e nj\u00ebjta pyetje t\u00eb mart\u00ebn q\u00eb t\u00eb b\u00ebn\u00eb t\u00eb h\u00ebn\u00ebn, por k\u00ebshtu ishte Ronnie. Ne e b\u00ebm\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb p\u00ebr 45 vjet\u201d, \u2013 tha ajo duke qeshur.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>\u201cAi padyshim kishte v\u00ebshtir\u00ebsi n\u00eb lexim dhe shkrim, por blinte \u201cSouth Wales Echo\u201d \u00e7do dit\u00eb\u201d, shtoi Diane.<\/span><\/p>\n\n<p><span>Ronnie u blinte t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtat karta dhuratash Marks and Spencer \u00e7do Krishtlindje, por \u00e7do vit ai ndjente t\u00eb nj\u00ebjtin g\u00ebzim nga reagimi i tyre. Ronnie e kalonte pjes\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe t\u00eb koh\u00ebs s\u00eb tij t\u00eb lir\u00eb n\u00eb kish\u00ebn lokale, duke mbledhur donacione p\u00ebr t\u00eb pastreh\u00ebt dhe duke u p\u00ebrgatitur p\u00ebr sh\u00ebrbesat, duke rregulluar karriget. Diane kujtoi nj\u00eb dit\u00eb kur u kthye n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi me nj\u00eb pal\u00eb k\u00ebpuc\u00eb t\u00eb ndryshme dhe e pyeti: \u201cRonnie, ku jan\u00eb k\u00ebpuc\u00ebt e tua?\u201d Ai i tha se nj\u00eb burr\u00eb i pastreh\u00eb kishte nevoj\u00eb p\u00ebr to dhe ai ia dha. \u201cKy ishte karakteri i tij. Ai ishte i mrekulluesh\u00ebm\u201d, \u2013 thon\u00eb ata.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Nj\u00eb nga koh\u00ebt e tyre m\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebshtira ishte kur Diane u diagnostikua me Encefalomielit mialgjik, ose sindrom\u00ebn e lodhjes kronike, pasi kishte dit\u00eb kur ajo nuk mund t\u00eb ngrihej nga shtrati. \u201cKisha nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb t\u00eb vog\u00ebl 3-vje\u00e7are dhe Rob ishte n\u00eb pun\u00eb\u201d, tha Diane. Por Ronnie ishte \u201ci admiruesh\u00ebm\u201d dhe mori p\u00ebrsip\u00ebr p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsit\u00eb e tij, duke p\u00ebrgatitur shishen e djalit t\u00eb tyre Lloyd, duke ndihmuar n\u00eb pun\u00ebt e sht\u00ebpis\u00eb dhe duke luajtur me vajz\u00ebn e tyre Katie. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Edhe pse pranuan se Ronnie kishte qen\u00eb i varur nga kumari p\u00ebr 20 vjet, ata nuk mund ta imagjinonin jet\u00ebn e tyre pa t\u00eb.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>\u201cNuk \u00ebsht\u00eb di\u00e7ka q\u00eb do ta rekomandoja si strategji, por Ronnie na e pasuroi jet\u00ebn n\u00eb shum\u00eb m\u00ebnyra\u201d, vuri n\u00eb dukje Rob. \u201cRonnie kishte nj\u00eb zem\u00ebr t\u00eb madhe. Ishte i sjellsh\u00ebm, bezdis\u00ebs. Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb isha n\u00ebna e tij, ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb isha punonj\u00ebsja e tij sociale dhe ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb isha kujdestarja e tij\u201d, thot\u00eb Diana.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Kur dikush i pyeti f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e \u00e7iftit: \u201cSi ia b\u00ebt\u00eb me Ronnie kur ju erdh\u00ebn miqt\u00eb n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi\u201d, ata u p\u00ebrgjigj\u00ebn: \u201cEpo, ne nuk mendonim shum\u00eb p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht Ronnie\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>\u201cF\u00ebmij\u00ebt tan\u00eb nuk e kishin njohur kurr\u00eb jet\u00ebn pa Ronnie. Ai ishte aty para se ata t\u00eb vinin dhe ishte aty kur ik\u00ebn\u201d, thot\u00eb Rob. Vet\u00ebm nj\u00eb her\u00eb \u00e7ifti mendoi ta ndihmonte Ronnie t\u00eb jetonte i pavarur, disa vjet pasi u q\u00ebndronte me ta. Dy f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre u rrit\u00ebn dhe hap\u00ebsira n\u00eb sht\u00ebpin\u00eb e tyre me nj\u00eb banjo dukej e kufizuar. Ata iu afruan dhom\u00ebs s\u00eb Ronnie p\u00ebr t\u2019i sugjeruar t\u00eb gjente nj\u00eb apartament af\u00ebr. Por kur hyn\u00eb, ai p\u00ebrs\u00ebriti pyetjen e njohur: \u201cA b\u00ebra di\u00e7ka gabim?\u201d Rob tha se Diana e nxori nga dhoma, shp\u00ebrtheu n\u00eb lot dhe tha: \u201cNuk mund ta b\u00ebj k\u00ebt\u00eb.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Disa net m\u00eb von\u00eb, Ronnie hyri n\u00eb dhom\u00ebn e tyre dhe pyeti: \u201cJemi miq t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb, t\u00eb tre, apo jo?\u201d \u201cUn\u00eb thash\u00eb: \u201cPo, Roni, t\u00eb tre jemi miq t\u00eb ngusht\u00eb\u201d \u2013 tha Robi. \u201cDhe do t\u00eb jemi bashk\u00eb p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb, apo jo?\u201d pyeti ai. \u201cPati nj\u00eb pauz\u00eb, ndoshta shum\u00eb t\u00eb gjat\u00eb, dhe un\u00eb e shikova Dian\u00ebn dhe thash\u00eb: \u201cPo, Ronnie, do t\u00eb jemi bashk\u00eb p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb\u201d. Dhe ishim.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span>Roni vdiq n\u00eb vitin 2020 n\u00eb mosh\u00ebn 75-vje\u00e7are pas nj\u00eb goditjeje n\u00eb tru, dhe \u00e7ifti pretendon se e ndjen shum\u00eb munges\u00ebn e tij. Shum\u00eb njer\u00ebz donin t\u00eb merrnin pjes\u00eb n\u00eb funeralin e tij, por p\u00ebr shkak t\u00eb pandemis\u00eb s\u00eb koronavirusit, vet\u00ebm 50 persona u paraqit\u00ebn. Ata mor\u00ebn t\u00eb pakt\u00ebn 100 kartolina ngush\u00ebllimi, nga \u201cprofesor\u00eb t\u00eb Universitetit t\u00eb Oksfordit, politikan\u00eb dhe t\u00eb papun\u00eb\u201d. Pas vdekjes s\u00eb tij, nj\u00eb qend\u00ebr e re sh\u00ebndet\u00ebsore, pjes\u00eb e Kish\u00ebs Glenwood n\u00eb Cardiff, mori emrin n\u00eb nder t\u00eb Ronnie, \u201cSht\u00ebpia Lockwood\u201d.<\/span><\/p>\n\n<p><span>Nd\u00ebrtesa u rinovua me fonde nga testamenti i Ronnie. \u201cN\u00eb fund, burri i pastreh\u00eb na vuri nj\u00eb \u00e7ati mbi kokat e t\u00eb gjith\u00ebve. A nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb e mrekullueshme? Mendoj se gjith\u00e7ka ishte e destinuar t\u00eb ndodhte\u201d, \u2013 tha Diane. \u201cNjer\u00ebzit na pyesin se si ndodhi \u2013 45 vjet \u2013 por e v\u00ebrteta \u00ebsht\u00eb se, n\u00eb nj\u00eb far\u00eb m\u00ebnyre, ndodhi dit\u00eb pas dite. Ronnie na e b\u00ebri jet\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb pasur.\u201d <strong>\u00a9P\u00ebrshtati n\u00eb shqip LAPSI.al<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p>The post <a href=\"https:\/\/lapsi.al\/2025\/12\/25\/historia-e-pabesueshme-futen-ne-shtepi-nje-te-pastrehe-ai-qendroi-me-ta-per-45-vjet\/\">Historia e pabesueshme\/ Fut\u00ebn n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi nj\u00eb t\u00eb pastreh\u00eb, ai q\u00ebndroi me ta p\u00ebr 45 vjet<\/a> appeared first on <a href=\"https:\/\/lapsi.al\/\">Lapsi.al<\/a>.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>M\u00eb 23 dhjetor 1975, Rob Parsons dhe gruaja e tij Diane i hap\u00ebn der\u00ebn nj\u00eb burri 30-vje\u00e7ar t\u00eb pastreh\u00eb, nj\u00eb akt mir\u00ebsie q\u00eb do t\u2019ua ndryshonte jet\u00ebn p\u00ebrgjithmon\u00eb. E gjitha filloi kur at\u00eb Krishtlindje, \u00e7ifti i ri n\u00eb Cardiff d\u00ebgjoi nj\u00eb trokitje n\u00eb der\u00ebn e tyre. Historin\u00eb e ka publikuar BBC. 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