Dixon Handshaw mendonte se ishte f\u00ebmij\u00eb i vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr pjes\u00ebn m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe t\u00eb jet\u00ebs s\u00eb tij. Por dekada pas adoptimit, 75-vje\u00e7ari m\u00ebsoi se kishte disa motra dhe v\u00ebllez\u00ebr, t\u00eb cil\u00ebt i takoi pik\u00ebrisht n\u00eb koh\u00eb p\u00ebr festat.<\/p>\n
Gjat\u00eb fundjav\u00ebs, Handshaw \u2013 i cili jeton n\u00eb Karolin\u00ebn e Veriut \u2013 fluturoi drejt Rochester, New York, ku u takua me disa nga gjysm\u00eb-v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit e tij p\u00ebrpara fest\u00ebs vjetore t\u00eb Krishtlindjes s\u00eb familjes.<\/p>\n
\u201cGjith\u00eb jet\u00ebn kam \u00ebnd\u00ebrruar t\u00eb kem motra dhe v\u00ebllez\u00ebr diku\u201d, tha Handshaw p\u00ebr filialin e CNN, WHAM, i cili dokumentoi takimin e par\u00eb t\u00eb motrave dhe v\u00ebllez\u00ebrve n\u00eb aeroport t\u00eb premten. \u201cKjo \u00ebsht\u00eb mrekullia ime e Krishtlindjes.\u201d<\/p>\n
T\u00eb shtun\u00ebn, Handshaw takoi mbi 50 t\u00eb af\u00ebrm q\u00eb nuk e dinte se ekzistonin deri m\u00eb her\u00ebt k\u00ebt\u00eb vit, tha ai p\u00ebr CNN t\u00eb mart\u00ebn. Tubimi, i cili p\u00ebrfshinte kush\u00ebrinj dhe f\u00ebmij\u00ebt e tyre, ishte nj\u00eb surpriz\u00eb e bukur p\u00ebr Handshaw, i cili ishte i vetmi f\u00ebmij\u00eb i prind\u00ebrve t\u00eb tij adoptues dhe nuk ka f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb tij.<\/p>\n
\u201cNuk kam takuar kurr\u00eb dik\u00eb q\u00eb ndan ADN-n\u00eb time,\u201d tha Handshaw. Por sapo takoi t\u00eb af\u00ebrmit, ndjenja e lidhjes ishte e menj\u00ebhershme, tha ai. \u201cIshte e mrekullueshme,\u201d shtoi ai. \u201cNuk kam ndier\u00eb kurr\u00eb nj\u00eb shp\u00ebrthim t\u00eb till\u00eb dashurie t\u00eb pakusht\u00ebzuar si ai nga familja ime e re.\u201d<\/p>\n
I lindur n\u00eb Buffalo, New York, n\u00eb vitin 1949, Handshaw u adoptua kur ishte vet\u00ebm tre muajsh dhe pati nj\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00ebri t\u00eb lumtur, shtoi ai, duke theksuar se prind\u00ebrit e tij ishin t\u00eb sinqert\u00eb p\u00ebr adoptimin.<\/p>\n
\u201cGjithmon\u00eb kam dashur t\u2019i gjej ata, por Shteti i New York-ut i kishte mbyllur certifikatat e lindjes para adoptimit dhe ishte e pamundur t\u00eb zbulohej\u201d, tha Handshaw.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb vitin 2020, certifikatat origjinale t\u00eb lindjes u hap\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb adoptuarit n\u00eb New York pas miratimit t\u00eb nj\u00eb ligji t\u00eb vitit 2019.<\/p>\n
Handshaw mori certifikat\u00ebn e tij origjinale t\u00eb lindjes n\u00eb gusht t\u00eb k\u00ebtij viti, tha ai p\u00ebr CNN. At\u00ebher\u00eb m\u00ebsoi emrin e babait t\u00eb tij biologjik: Robert \u201cBud\u201d Romig.<\/p>\n
\u201cGj\u00ebja e par\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebra kur mora emrin e babait ishte ta k\u00ebrkoja n\u00eb Google, dhe m\u00eb doli nekrologjia e tij\u201d, tha Handshaw.<\/p>\n
\u201cJo vet\u00ebm q\u00eb u shokova kur pash\u00eb se isha sakt\u00ebsisht si ai, por menj\u00ebher\u00eb kuptova se kisha gjith\u00eb k\u00ebta v\u00ebllez\u00ebr dhe nj\u00eb mot\u00ebr.\u201d<\/p>\n
Handshaw nuk e di pse u dha p\u00ebr adoptim, por ai di q\u00eb babai i tij ishte nj\u00eb student i diplomuar n\u00eb departamentin e fizik\u00ebs n\u00eb Universitetin Cornell. N\u00ebna e tij ishte sekretare n\u00eb departament, tha ai.<\/p>\n
N\u00ebna e tij biologjike nuk pati m\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, tha Handshaw, por gjithmon\u00eb pyeste veten n\u00ebse babai i tij kishte f\u00ebmij\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Pas lindjes s\u00eb Handshaw, Romig u vendos n\u00eb Rochester me nj\u00eb grua q\u00eb kishte tre djem t\u00eb saj. Romig adoptoi tre djemt\u00eb, tha Handshaw. \u00c7ifti m\u00eb von\u00eb pati pes\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb \u2013 kat\u00ebr djem dhe nj\u00eb vajz\u00eb. Handshaw kontaktoi Gary Romig, nj\u00eb nga djemt\u00eb e adoptuar t\u00eb babait t\u00eb tij, tha ai p\u00ebr CNN.<\/p>\n
\u201cZgjodha Gary si personin q\u00eb do t\u00eb telefonoja sepse e dija q\u00eb ishte i adoptuar dhe un\u00eb isha i adoptuar, dhe k\u00ebshtu mendova se ai do t\u00eb ishte m\u00eb mir\u00ebkuptues ndaj situat\u00ebs sime\u201d, tha Handshaw. Gary ishte n\u00eb pun\u00eb duke ngr\u00ebn\u00eb drek\u00eb kur mori telefonat\u00ebn e par\u00eb nga Handshaw, sipas WHAM.<\/p>\n
\u201cPata nj\u00eb telefonat\u00eb dhe nuk e njoha numrin. Rrall\u00eb p\u00ebrgjigjem n\u00eb telefon n\u00ebse nuk e njoh numrin. Por p\u00ebr ndonj\u00eb arsye, iu p\u00ebrgjigja,\u201d tha Romig. \u201cDhe ai thot\u00eb, \u2018P\u00ebrsh\u00ebndetje, un\u00eb quhem Dixon. A jeni ju Gary Romig?\u2019 Un\u00eb i thash\u00eb, \u2018Jam.\u2019 Ai thot\u00eb, \u2018Un\u00eb jam v\u00ebllai juaj,\u2019 dhe un\u00eb jam si, \u2018\u00c7far\u00eb?\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n
Handshaw i d\u00ebrgoi nj\u00eb foto t\u00eb tij Gary-t, i cili menj\u00ebher\u00eb njohu fytyr\u00ebn e njerkut t\u00eb tij. \u201cI d\u00ebrgova nj\u00eb foto, dhe (Gary) ua d\u00ebrgoi foton t\u00eb gjith\u00eb motrave dhe v\u00ebllez\u00ebrve,\u201d tha Handshaw. \u201cAta than\u00eb, \u2018\u00cbsht\u00eb babai!\u2019\u201d Gary i mbajti motrat dhe v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit e tij n\u00eb ankth p\u00ebr dy or\u00eb e gjysm\u00eb p\u00ebrpara se t\u2019u thoshte, \u2018Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb v\u00ebllai juaj i ri,\u2019\u201d tha Handshaw p\u00ebr CNN.<\/p>\n
Edhe pse Handshaw nuk do ta kaloj\u00eb Dit\u00ebn e Krishtlindjes me familjen e tij t\u00eb re, ai ka nd\u00ebrmend t\u00eb kaloj\u00eb m\u00eb shum\u00eb koh\u00eb me ta n\u00eb t\u00eb ardhmen.<\/p>\n
\u201cNe do t\u00eb shkojm\u00eb s\u00eb bashku p\u00ebr kamping k\u00ebt\u00eb ver\u00eb,\u201d tha ai, duke shtuar se ai dhe motrat e v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit e tij tashm\u00eb kan\u00eb nj\u00eb grup t\u00eb dedikuar tekstesh. \u201cJemi mbi t\u00eb \u00e7do dit\u00eb,\u201d tha Handshaw. P\u00ebr momentin, Handshaw dhe motrat e v\u00ebllez\u00ebrit e tij po rikuperojn\u00eb koh\u00ebn e humbur, por takimi i tyre ndodhi m\u00eb mir\u00eb von\u00eb se kurr\u00eb, theksoi ai.<\/p>\n
\u201cPata prind\u00ebr t\u00eb mrekulluesh\u00ebm adoptues. Ishin t\u00eb mrekulluesh\u00ebm. I dua dhe m\u00eb mungojn\u00eb, por gjithmon\u00eb kam dashur motra dhe v\u00ebllez\u00ebr, dhe tani i kam,\u201d tha Handshaw p\u00ebr CNN. \u201cMendova se nj\u00eb ose dy do t\u00eb ishin t\u00eb mrekulluesh\u00ebm. Pata gjasht\u00eb!\u201d.<\/p>\n
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