Keni d\u00ebgjuar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb p\u00ebr \u201cSindrom\u00ebn e njeriut t\u00eb tret\u00eb\u201d (Third Man Syndrome)? N\u00ebse jo, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb artikull do gjeni disa p\u00ebrgjigje p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb fenomen misterioz.<\/p>\n
Zakonisht prek njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb vuajn\u00eb nga nivele t\u00eb larta t\u00eb stresit ose jan\u00eb n\u00eb ankth p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka. Por mund t\u00eb vij\u00eb edhe n\u00eb momente qet\u00ebsie. Ndjesia p\u00ebrshkruhet sikur nj\u00eb person tjet\u00ebr shfaqet pran\u00eb nesh, duke dh\u00ebn\u00eb ndjenj\u00ebn e komfortit, e her\u00eb paralajm\u00ebrimin se di\u00e7ka e keqe do t\u00eb ndodh\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Disa njer\u00ebz thon\u00eb se \u00ebsht\u00eb si nj\u00eb z\u00eb i brendsh\u00ebm ose ndjenj\u00eb q\u00eb nuk e \u201cheq dot qafe\u201d. T\u00eb tjer\u00eb besojn\u00eb se u shfaqet nj\u00eb person i veshur me nj\u00eb \u201cdrit\u00eb verbuese\u201d.<\/p>\n
Ka nj\u00eb s\u00ebr\u00eb p\u00ebrjetimesh p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb ndjesi, nga ato psikologjike e deri te spiritualet.<\/p>\n
Gjithsesi ekziston edhe nj\u00eb poem\u00eb e titulluar \u201cThe Waste Land\u201d q\u00eb erdhi si frym\u00ebzim i eksperienc\u00ebs s\u00eb Ernest Shackleton, nj\u00eb eksplorues irlandez q\u00eb shkoi p\u00ebr ekspedit\u00eb n\u00eb Antarktid\u00eb n\u00eb vitin 1916. Pasi anija e tij u ngri, ai dhe dy an\u00ebtar\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00eb t\u00eb ekuipazhit ec\u00ebn p\u00ebr 36 or\u00eb mbi akullnaja. Gjat\u00eb asaj kohe, secili nga tre burrat kishin at\u00eb ndjesin\u00eb q\u00eb nj\u00eb person i kat\u00ebrt ishte me ta. K\u00ebshtu T.S. Elliot shkroi poem\u00ebn e tij, insipiruar nga ky fenomen:<\/p>\n
Kush \u00ebsht\u00eb personi i tret\u00eb q\u00eb ec\u00ebn gjithnj\u00eb krah teje?<\/p>\n
Kur num\u00ebroj, jemi vet\u00ebm un\u00eb dhe ti bashk\u00eb<\/p>\n
Por kur shikoj s\u00eb largu n\u00eb rrug\u00ebn e bardh\u00eb<\/p>\n
\u00cbsht\u00eb gjithnj\u00eb nj\u00eb tjet\u00ebr q\u00eb ec\u00ebn krah teje\u2026<\/p>\n
Jan\u00eb k\u00ebto disa nga vargjet e poem\u00ebs.<\/p>\n
BuzzFeed ka p\u00ebrzgjedhur disa nga eksperiencat e njer\u00ebzve q\u00eb jan\u00eb prekur nga kjo sindrom\u00eb e \u00e7uditshme, si m\u00eb posht\u00eb:<\/p>\n
\u2013\u201cIsha vet\u00ebm 5 vje\u00e7, isha ulur n\u00eb sediljet e pasme t\u00eb makin\u00ebs. Mami im po na \u00e7onte n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi pas disa blerjeve q\u00eb b\u00ebm\u00eb. Isha shum\u00eb e lodhur dhe po m\u00eb zinte gjumi. Papritmas, d\u00ebgjova dik\u00eb q\u00eb b\u00ebrtiste emrin tim dhe m\u00eb ul\u00ebrinte q\u00eb t\u00eb zgjohesha. Hapa syt\u00eb dhe pyeta maman\u00eb time se pse m\u00eb b\u00ebrtiti. Ajo m\u00eb tha, nuk b\u00ebra gj\u00eb. Fiks n\u00eb at\u00eb moment, nj\u00eb kamion u p\u00ebrplas n\u00eb makin\u00ebn ton\u00eb. N\u00ebse un\u00eb nuk do isha zgjuar, do isha b\u00ebr\u00eb copash nga ajo p\u00ebrplasje, pasi kamioni preku fiks pjes\u00ebn nga isha shtrir\u00eb un\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb fjetur. P\u00ebrve\u00e7 disa g\u00ebrvishtjeve n\u00eb krah\u00eb dhe k\u00ebmb\u00eb, isha shum\u00eb mir\u00eb. N\u00ebse ai z\u00eb s\u2019do m\u00eb zgjonte, un\u00eb sot do isha e vdekur.\u201d<\/p>\n
\u2013\u201cUn\u00eb dhe burri im dol\u00ebn p\u00ebr drek\u00eb. Restoranti kishte televizor\u00eb t\u00eb v\u00ebn\u00eb n\u00eb mur lart e nj\u00ebri prej tyre ishte n\u00eb cep m\u2018u pran\u00eb tryez\u00ebs ton\u00eb. Sa u ul\u00ebm, d\u00ebgjoja vazhdimisht nj\u00eb z\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb thoshte se duhet t\u00eb ikja n\u00eb tualet. Fillimisht e injorova\u2026Nuk kisha nevoj\u00eb t\u00eb shkoja, por ishte aq i p\u00ebrs\u00ebritur si z\u00eb sa vendosa t\u00eb shkoja t\u00eb laja duart. Q\u00ebndrova n\u00eb tualet p\u00ebr 30 sekonda, nd\u00ebrsa d\u00ebgjova nj\u00eb zhurm\u00eb t\u00eb tmerrshme. Kur u ktheva, pash\u00eb q\u00eb televizori kishte r\u00ebn\u00eb mbi karrigen time. Fal\u00eb Zotit q\u00eb e d\u00ebgjova at\u00eb z\u00eb!\u201d<\/p>\n
\u2013\u201cKam shp\u00ebtuar nga fatkeq\u00ebsit\u00eb shum\u00eb her\u00eb n\u00eb jet\u00ebn time. M\u00eb shum\u00eb se sa nj\u00eb z\u00eb, \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb lloj mendimi q\u00eb vjen n\u00eb form\u00eb komande. Nj\u00eb dit\u00eb teksa po shkoja me makin\u00eb t\u00eb merrja vajz\u00ebn time nga shkolla, u g\u00ebzova aq shum\u00eb q\u00eb s\u2019kishte trafik. Rruga bosh ishte mrekulli! Papritmas m\u00eb erdhi nj\u00eb mendim n\u00eb kok\u00eb: Aksidentet ndodhin! Pa e ditur se ky ishte z\u00ebri q\u00eb s\u2019di nga buronte, thash\u00eb me vete: Dakord, po s\u2019ka asnj\u00eb makin\u00eb n\u00eb rrug\u00eb. Asnj\u00eb njeri! M\u00eb pas, d\u00ebgjova dik\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb b\u00ebrtiste me t\u00eb madhe: Kthehu djathtas! Nuk e di se si, por nj\u00eb makin\u00eb e madhe fluturoi n\u00eb mes t\u00eb rrug\u00ebs. N\u00ebse nuk do kisha marr\u00eb at\u00eb kthes\u00eb, aksidenti do kishte qen\u00eb fatal. Ky z\u00eb u b\u00eb engj\u00eblli im mbrojt\u00ebs!\u201d<\/p>\n
\u2013\u201cNj\u00eb nat\u00eb, mora nj\u00eb telefonat\u00eb nga nj\u00eb i af\u00ebrm me t\u00eb cilin kisha pasur disa konflikte m\u00eb par\u00eb. Ai e dinte ku jetoja dhe se at\u00eb nat\u00eb isha vet\u00ebm n\u00eb sht\u00ebpi pasi burri im ishte n\u00eb pun\u00eb. Filloi t\u00eb m\u00eb thoshte gj\u00ebra t\u00eb tmerrshme dhe u frik\u00ebsova aq shum\u00eb sepse ai person jetonte pran\u00eb nesh. Befas, d\u00ebgjova z\u00ebrin e nj\u00eb burri q\u00eb m\u00eb tha: Gjith\u00e7ka do shkoj\u00eb mir\u00eb! E d\u00ebgjova aq qart\u00ebsisht sa m\u2019u duk sikur ishte n\u00eb nj\u00eb dhom\u00eb me mua. Personi nga ana tjet\u00ebr e telefonit m\u00eb pyeti: Kush \u00ebsht\u00eb ai burr\u00eb me ty dhe e fiku. Nuk d\u00ebgjova m\u00eb kurr\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb!\u201d<\/p>\n
\u2013\u201cIsha 9 vje\u00e7 dhe prej nj\u00eb defekti q\u00eb n\u00eb lindje isha i detyruar q\u00eb t\u00eb shtrohesha n\u00eb spital her\u00eb pas here, p\u00ebr t\u00eb kryer disa nd\u00ebrhyrje. Nj\u00eb nat\u00eb n\u00eb spital, kisha shum\u00eb dhimbje dhe vendosa t\u00eb mos rri m\u00eb shtrir\u00eb. Shtypa zilen q\u00eb infermieret t\u00eb m\u00eb ndihmonin deri n\u00eb tualet dhe fiks n\u00eb at\u00eb moment nj\u00eb burr\u00eb i veshur me t\u00eb bardha u shfaq pran\u00eb meje duke m\u00eb buz\u00ebqeshur. Ishte aq i lumtur dhe t\u00eb dhuronte nj\u00eb ndjenj\u00eb qet\u00ebsie. Dit\u00ebn tjet\u00ebr, i k\u00ebrkova stafit t\u00eb sillnin at\u00eb njeri te dhoma ime, duke menduar se ishte infermier. Ata u habit\u00ebn nga p\u00ebrshkrimi q\u00eb b\u00ebra\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n
The post A jeni v\u00ebrtet vet\u00ebm n\u00eb momentin t\u00ebnd m\u00eb t\u00eb friksh\u00ebm? Fenomeni misterioz q\u00eb njer\u00ebzit e shohin si paralajm\u00ebrim\u2026<\/a> appeared first on www.lexo.al<\/a>.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Keni d\u00ebgjuar ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb p\u00ebr \u201cSindrom\u00ebn e njeriut t\u00eb tret\u00eb\u201d (Third Man Syndrome)? N\u00ebse jo, n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb artikull do gjeni disa p\u00ebrgjigje p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb fenomen misterioz. Zakonisht prek njer\u00ebzit q\u00eb vuajn\u00eb nga nivele t\u00eb larta t\u00eb stresit ose jan\u00eb n\u00eb ankth p\u00ebr di\u00e7ka. Por mund t\u00eb vij\u00eb edhe n\u00eb momente qet\u00ebsie. Ndjesia p\u00ebrshkruhet sikur nj\u00eb person […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":0,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2575","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/zennihost.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2575","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/zennihost.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/zennihost.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zennihost.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2575"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/zennihost.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2575\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/zennihost.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2575"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zennihost.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2575"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/zennihost.com\/test\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2575"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}