Flora Sk\u00ebndo \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb sip\u00ebrmarr\u00ebse dhe autore shqiptare, e angazhuar n\u00eb dialogun kulturor mes Italis\u00eb dhe Shqip\u00ebris\u00eb dhe e njohur p\u00ebr pun\u00ebn e saj n\u00eb fush\u00ebn e komunikimit dhe zhvillimit personal.<\/p>\n
Ajo \u00ebsht\u00eb autore e librit \u201cIt\u2019s My Time \u2013 The Manifesto for the Modern Woman,\u201d i botuar fillimisht n\u00eb anglisht dhe tashm\u00eb i disponuesh\u00ebm edhe n\u00eb italisht, nga sht\u00ebpia botuese Morrone Editore. Vepra \u00ebsht\u00eb nj\u00eb manifest bashk\u00ebkohor, i drejtuar ve\u00e7an\u00ebrisht grave, nj\u00eb ftes\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb njohur vler\u00ebn e vetes, p\u00ebr t\u00eb kap\u00ebrcyer kufijt\u00eb e vendosur nga shoq\u00ebria dhe p\u00ebr t\u00eb pasur guximin t\u00eb kap\u00ebsh momentin e duhur p\u00ebr t\u00eb afirmuar veten n\u00eb jet\u00eb dhe n\u00eb pun\u00eb.<\/p>\n
Libri \u00ebsht\u00eb prezantuar edhe n\u00eb kontekste t\u00eb r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme institucionale dhe kulturore, si Panairi Nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtar i Librit n\u00eb Torino, ku \u00ebsht\u00eb shnd\u00ebrruar n\u00eb nj\u00eb pik\u00eb takimi mes p\u00ebrvojave, vizioneve dhe rrug\u00ebtimit t\u00eb njer\u00ebzve nga realitete t\u00eb ndryshme, duke kontribuar n\u00eb forcimin e dialogut mes kulturave dhe brezave.<\/p>\n
N\u00eb pun\u00ebn e saj, Flora Sk\u00ebndo nd\u00ebrthur kujtes\u00ebn personale me reflektimin mbi lirin\u00eb individuale, duke nd\u00ebrtuar nj\u00eb rr\u00ebfim q\u00eb nis q\u00eb nga f\u00ebmij\u00ebria dhe zhvillohet si nj\u00eb udh\u00ebtim drejt nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsimit dhe vet\u00ebvendosjes. Manifesti i saj nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht nj\u00eb rr\u00ebfim autobiografik, por nj\u00eb deklarat\u00eb q\u00ebllimi, e cila na fton t\u00eb mbajm\u00eb q\u00ebndrim, t\u00eb zgjedhim dhe t\u00eb k\u00ebrkojm\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00ebn p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb plot\u00ebsisht vetvetja, duke e shnd\u00ebrruar p\u00ebrvoj\u00ebn personale n\u00eb nj\u00eb mesazh universal p\u00ebr lirin\u00eb dhe p\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsin\u00eb.<\/p>\n\n
Ne u takuam me Flora Sk\u00ebndon n\u00eb Sicili dhe, gjat\u00eb intervist\u00ebs, rikthyem s\u00eb bashku disa nga etapat m\u00eb dometh\u00ebn\u00ebse t\u00eb historis\u00eb s\u00eb gruas n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rajon. Biseda nisi me nj\u00eb rast emblematik dhe thell\u00ebsisht simbolik: historin\u00eb e s\u00eb res\u00eb Franca Viola, historia e s\u00eb cil\u00ebs edhe sot p\u00ebrfaq\u00ebson nj\u00eb pik\u00eb kthese n\u00eb luft\u00ebn p\u00ebr vet\u00ebvendosjen e grave.<\/p>\n
Kur e ke njohur p\u00ebr her\u00eb t\u00eb par\u00eb historin\u00eb e \u201cFranca Viol\u00ebs\u201d?<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n \nIsha vet\u00ebm tet\u00eb vje\u00e7 kur, n\u00eb Tiran\u00ebn e diktatur\u00ebs, pash\u00eb filmin La moglie pi\u00f9 bella.<\/p>\n\n Nuk e kuptoja ende pesh\u00ebn e ligjeve dhe as historin\u00eb e t\u00eb ashtuquajtur\u00ebs martes\u00eb riparuese, ndaj nuk mund ta kuptoja plot\u00ebsisht p\u00ebrmas\u00ebn e asaj q\u00eb po shihja.<\/p>\n Megjithat\u00eb, i kujtoj qart\u00eb ndjesit\u00eb q\u00eb m\u00eb p\u00ebrcillte ai film.<\/p>\n Dhe mbi t\u00eb gjitha, kujtoj nj\u00eb fjal\u00eb:<\/p>\n Jo.<\/p>\n Pse ishte kaq e r\u00ebnd\u00ebsishme p\u00ebr ty ajo histori?<\/strong><\/p>\n \nFilmi tregonte historin\u00eb e Franca Viol\u00ebs, t\u00eb res\u00eb siciliane q\u00eb pati guximin t\u00eb refuzonte martes\u00ebn me njeriun q\u00eb e kishte p\u00ebrdhunuar, n\u00eb nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri ku nj\u00eb martes\u00eb e till\u00eb konsiderohej nj\u00eb \u201czgjidhje\u201d p\u00ebr nderin e humbur.<\/p>\n Refuzimi i saj nuk ishte vet\u00ebm personal: ishte refuzimi i turpit t\u00eb imponuar, i nj\u00eb fati t\u00eb vendosur nga t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt dhe i vet\u00eb ides\u00eb se nj\u00eb grua duhej t\u00eb paguante p\u00ebr dhun\u00ebn q\u00eb kishte p\u00ebsuar.<\/p>\n Pik\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, ajo \u201cJo\u201d u shnd\u00ebrrua n\u00eb di\u00e7ka shum\u00eb m\u00eb t\u00eb madhe se vet\u00eb ajo.<\/p>\n \u00c7far\u00eb roli ka luajtur babai yt n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb rrug\u00ebtim?<\/strong><\/p>\n \nSa her\u00eb e shikonim at\u00eb film, babai im p\u00ebrs\u00ebriste:<\/p>\n \u201cK\u00ebshtu duhet t\u00eb jen\u00eb vajzat: t\u00eb forta, q\u00eb askush t\u00eb mos mund t\u2019i shkel\u00eb.\u201d<\/p>\n At\u00ebher\u00eb isha shum\u00eb e vog\u00ebl p\u00ebr ta kuptuar deri n\u00eb fund dometh\u00ebnien e atyre fjal\u00ebve, por ato u rr\u00ebnjos\u00ebn thell\u00eb brenda meje.<\/p>\n Me kalimin e koh\u00ebs kuptova se shum\u00eb prej ideve mbi t\u00eb cilat mb\u00ebshtetet It\u2019s My Time lindin pik\u00ebrisht aty: nga m\u00ebsimet e tij, nga shembulli q\u00eb m\u00eb jepte dhe nga historit\u00eb e grave q\u00eb nuk pranonin rolin q\u00eb shoq\u00ebria u kishte caktuar.<\/p>\n \u00c7far\u00eb do t\u00eb thot\u00eb p\u00ebr ty t\u00eb mos jetosh n\u00eb cepin q\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt kan\u00eb p\u00ebrgatitur p\u00ebr ty?<\/strong><\/p>\n \nEkziston nj\u00eb form\u00eb dhune q\u00eb nuk l\u00eb shenja t\u00eb dukshme: ajo q\u00eb t\u00eb bind t\u00eb zvog\u00eblosh veten, t\u00eb hesht\u00ebsh, t\u00eb k\u00ebnaqesh me pak, t\u00eb pranosh nj\u00eb turp q\u00eb nuk t\u00eb p\u00ebrket.<\/p>\n K\u00ebshtu nj\u00eb shoq\u00ebri p\u00ebrpiqet t\u2019i b\u00ebj\u00eb njer\u00ebzit m\u00eb t\u00eb kontrolluesh\u00ebm: fillimisht i kufizon, pastaj i p\u00ebrcakton dhe, n\u00eb fund, pretendon t\u2019i p\u00ebrdor\u00eb.<\/p>\n Franca Viola b\u00ebri t\u00eb kund\u00ebrt\u00ebn. Ajo nuk lejoi t\u00eb kufizohej, e refuzoi at\u00eb rol dhe zgjodhi t\u00eb q\u00ebndronte n\u00eb k\u00ebmb\u00eb.<\/p>\n Pik\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye, historia e saj nuk u p\u00ebrket vet\u00ebm grave italiane, por \u00ebsht\u00eb pjes\u00eb e historis\u00eb universale t\u00eb liris\u00eb.<\/p>\n Si lidhet kjo me librin t\u00ebnd?<\/strong><\/p>\n \nDuke shkruar \u201cIt\u2019s My Time\u201d, i dhash\u00eb nj\u00eb em\u00ebr nj\u00eb bindjeje q\u00eb e kam mbartur gjithmon\u00eb brenda vetes: \u00e7do njeri ka t\u00eb drejt\u00eb ta rimarr\u00eb n\u00eb dor\u00eb jet\u00ebn e vet, pavar\u00ebsisht asaj q\u00eb i \u00ebsht\u00eb th\u00ebn\u00eb ose i \u00ebsht\u00eb mohuar.<\/p>\n Gjithmon\u00eb vjen nj\u00eb moment kur duhet t\u00eb zgjedh\u00ebsh.<\/p>\n Mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb nj\u00eb fillim, nj\u00eb rilindje, nj\u00eb transformim. Mund t\u00eb jet\u00eb vendimi p\u00ebr t\u00eb ndjekur nj\u00eb \u00ebnd\u00ebrr ose p\u00ebr t\u2019u larguar nga ajo q\u00eb t\u00eb l\u00ebndon.<\/p>\n Ndonj\u00ebher\u00eb \u00ebsht\u00eb thjesht \u00e7asti i par\u00eb kur shikojm\u00eb veten n\u00eb pasqyr\u00eb dhe themi:<\/p>\n \u201cTani zgjedh un\u00eb.\u201d<\/p>\n P\u00ebr mua, ky \u00ebsht\u00eb It\u2019s My Time<\/em><\/strong>.<\/p>\n Dhe pik\u00ebrisht p\u00ebr k\u00ebt\u00eb arsye Franca Viola \u00ebsht\u00eb kaq qendrore n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb histori: ajo e shnd\u00ebrroi nj\u00eb \u201cJo\u201d n\u00eb nj\u00eb deklarat\u00eb lirie.<\/p>\n Cili \u00ebsht\u00eb m\u00ebsimi m\u00eb i thell\u00eb q\u00eb ke marr\u00eb?<\/strong><\/p>\n \nSot i d\u00ebgjoj fjal\u00ebt e babait tim me nj\u00eb nd\u00ebrgjegj\u00ebsim tjet\u00ebr. Ai nuk po fliste vet\u00ebm p\u00ebr Franca Viol\u00ebn, por po m\u00eb p\u00ebrcillte nj\u00eb filozofi t\u00eb v\u00ebrtet\u00eb jete: t\u00eb mos lejosh ask\u00ebnd t\u00eb t\u00eb shkel\u00eb, t\u00eb mos e ngat\u00ebrrosh mir\u00ebsin\u00eb me dob\u00ebsin\u00eb dhe as dashurin\u00eb me n\u00ebnshtrimin.<\/p>\n Dhe mbi t\u00eb gjitha, t\u00eb mos lejosh q\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt t\u00eb vendosin se sa hap\u00ebsir\u00eb meriton ti n\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb bot\u00eb.<\/p>\n Me kalimin e koh\u00ebs, k\u00ebto m\u00ebsime u b\u00ebn\u00eb pjes\u00eb e identitetit tim.<\/p>\n Kuptova gjithashtu se nj\u00eb lib\u00ebr mund t\u00eb lind\u00eb shum\u00eb koh\u00eb p\u00ebrpara se t\u00eb shkruhet: nga nj\u00eb fjali, nga nj\u00eb imazh, nga nj\u00eb takim ose nga nj\u00eb ndjesi q\u00eb mbetet brenda nesh p\u00ebr vite me radh\u00eb.<\/p>\n Pse historia e Franca Viol\u00ebs mbetet ende aktuale?<\/strong><\/p>\n \nEdhe pse n\u00eb vitin 1981 Italia e shfuqizoi martes\u00ebn riparuese, forca e Franca Viol\u00ebs nuk i p\u00ebrket s\u00eb kaluar\u00ebs.<\/p>\n Ajo jeton n\u00eb \u00e7do grua q\u00eb edhe sot gjen guximin t\u00eb thot\u00eb jo: jo dhun\u00ebs, manipulimit, frik\u00ebs dhe kujtdo q\u00eb d\u00ebshiron t\u00eb vendos\u00eb n\u00eb vend t\u00eb saj.<\/p>\n Dhe, mbi t\u00eb gjitha, t\u00eb thot\u00eb po vetes.<\/p>\n Ky \u00ebsht\u00eb mesazhi q\u00eb p\u00ebrcjell me It\u2019s My Time<\/em>: nuk duhet t\u00eb presim q\u00eb bota t\u00eb na jap\u00eb lejen p\u00ebr t\u00eb qen\u00eb plot\u00ebsisht vetvetja. Duhet ta njohim vet\u00eb k\u00ebt\u00eb t\u00eb drejt\u00eb.<\/p>\n Koha jon\u00eb nuk vjen kur t\u00eb gjith\u00eb jan\u00eb gati, por kur ne jemi gati.<\/p>\n Un\u00eb u p\u00ebrballa me k\u00ebt\u00eb vet\u00ebdije q\u00eb f\u00ebmij\u00eb, p\u00ebrmes nj\u00eb filmi, nj\u00eb historie, nj\u00eb fjale.<\/p>\n Jo.<\/p>\n Brenda asaj fjale gjendet nj\u00eb filozofi e t\u00ebr\u00eb jete: askush nuk ka t\u00eb drejt\u00eb t\u00eb t\u00eb zvog\u00ebloj\u00eb, t\u00eb t\u00eb thyej\u00eb apo t\u00eb vendos\u00eb se sa vlen.<\/p>\n Vjen nj\u00eb moment kur duhet t\u00eb dal\u00ebsh nga cepi ku t\u00eb kan\u00eb vendosur, t\u00eb ngrihesh, t\u00eb zgjedh\u00ebsh dhe t\u00eb rimarr\u00ebsh z\u00ebrin t\u00ebnd.<\/p>\n T\u00eb shikosh jet\u00ebn t\u00ebnde dhe m\u00eb n\u00eb fund t\u00eb thuash:<\/p>\n IT\u2019S MY TIME.<\/p>\n \u00cbsht\u00eb koha ime.<\/p>\n Jo koha q\u00eb t\u00eb tjer\u00ebt kan\u00eb zgjedhur p\u00ebr mua.<\/p>\n Koha ime.<\/p>\n Kryetari i Bashkis\u00eb s\u00eb Sirakuz\u00ebs, Francesco Italia, \u00ebsht\u00eb takuar dit\u00ebt e fundit me shkrimtaren dhe sip\u00ebrmarr\u00ebsen Flora Sk\u00ebndo, protagoniste e nj\u00eb aktiviteti q\u00eb nd\u00ebrthuri kultur\u00ebn, dialogun nd\u00ebrkomb\u00ebtar dhe reflektimin mbi rolin e gruas n\u00eb shoq\u00ebrin\u00eb bashk\u00ebkohore.<\/p>\n\n Krahas kryetarit t\u00eb bashkis\u00eb, nj\u00eb e ftuar e ve\u00e7ant\u00eb e b\u00ebri k\u00ebt\u00eb event edhe m\u00eb t\u00eb jasht\u00ebzakonsh\u00ebm: Whoopi Goldberg, ikon\u00eb e kinemas\u00eb bot\u00ebrore dhe nj\u00eb prani befasuese n\u00eb zem\u00ebr t\u00eb Sirakuz\u00ebs.<\/p>\n Gjat\u00eb takimit, Sk\u00ebndo foli p\u00ebr vler\u00ebn e nj\u00eb feminiteti t\u00eb lir\u00eb dhe t\u00eb pavarur, t\u00eb aft\u00eb p\u00ebr t\u00eb nd\u00ebrtuar ura mes kulturave t\u00eb ndryshme.<\/p>\n\n Por v\u00ebmendjen e t\u00ebrhoqi edhe prania e Whoopi Goldberg, e cila nuk \u00ebsht\u00eb vet\u00ebm aktorja e filmave t\u00eb paharruesh\u00ebm, por edhe nj\u00eb z\u00eb i kthjell\u00ebt dhe autentik, i aft\u00eb t\u00eb kaloj\u00eb natyrsh\u00ebm nga ironia te thell\u00ebsia.<\/p>\n